Sex is a taboo frowned upon in most societies. Most of the people reading this article will be judging me for even writing about it. ( “She is writing about it, means she has had sex” ) This article is not for them.
While watching a season, where the actress calls herself a slut for sleeping with a certain number of men, it occurred to me what is the number that if a girl crosses in terms of sex with different men, makes her a slut in the eyes of a man?
In pure curiosity I began asking all sorts of men living in different cities/countries, I asked them to give me a number without any explanations. It was very entertaining, Interesting and sad to read all sorts of numbers. Different mindsets, different numbers. I got numbers from 45-2.
You will be given the tag of a slut for crossing the number 2 by some and it goes up-till 45 for some men to call you that.
Asking men to give me a number wasn’t hard for them to answer, sure they took some time but they had an answer. What they didn’t have an answer to was my question that, Will you consider yourself a Man-whore if you cross your given number if you haven’t already?!
When I asked them to give me a number and that I don’t require an explanation, they were more than happy to answer but when I asked them to reply to my second question with a simple yes or a no, I heard all sorts of things from “It’s different with men” , “Depends on how much action are we getting/can get”.
This is hypocrisy. If you believe that a certain number can give a woman a tag of a slut, that same number upon crossing should give you the same tag as well.
There is no person in this world who can give anyone a tag like that, nobody in your life has the right to disrespect you like that. It is your life and It is your choice to live it the way you want and if there is anyone who loves to give out tags, they should be asked to give themselves one first.
To be continued…